Preheat your oven to 375 degrees. Use a silicone muffin pan or grease a regular muffin tin and set aside.
Add the milk, butter, eggs, and honey to a large mixing bowl and use an electric mixer to combine. Add the cornbread mix and combine until no lumps.
Lastly, fold in the jalapenos, corn, and cheddar cheese, and mix until all ingredients are combined well.
Scoop the batter into each muffin cup. When filling the muffin cups, only fill them up about ¾ of the way to allow space to rise. Top with optional diced or sliced jalapeno.
Bake the muffins in the oven for about 20 minutes. The tops should be lightly golden brown.
Remove the muffins from the oven, and let them rest for about 5-10 minutes before you remove them from the tins.